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Do I Expect People To Treat Me Like Royalty?

A few weeks ago rookie NBA basketball player Lonzo Ball hosted an autograph signing for $199 per signature.  I guess the $6.9 million that he is going to make this year is not enough… because of the success of his family name and his skills as a basketball player, he seems to feel entitled to…
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(Wisdom Wednesday) Am I Too Quick To Say Yes?

Jesus said, “But let your ‘yes’ mean ‘yes,’ and your ‘no’ mean ‘no.’ Anything more than this is from the evil one” (Matthew 5:37).  I have found that most people have the tendency to throw the word “yes” around as if it has no meaning, and the word “no” is not even in some people’s…
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Are My Expectations For A Spouse Too High?

Though it is hard to get an exact number because of differences in assessment methods, some have estimated that 40-50% of marriages in the United States will end in divorce.  Others have argued that it is more like 30% but I don’t think either one is that impressive… For many couples, once the “lovey-dovey” feelings…
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What Is The Most Dangerous Weapon In Our Society?

On Wednesday Nikolas Cruz opened fire at Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School in Florida, killing 17 people and wounding more than a dozen. If you haven’t heard much about it, this article gives a moment by moment account.  This was the third deadliest school shooting in US history after Sandy Hook in 2012 where there…
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(Wisdom Wednesday) Why Do I Never Have Time To Get Everything Done?

Steve Jobs said, “It’s only by saying ‘no’ that you can concentrate on the things that are really important.” This is a man that by all worldly standards was incredibly successful. He knew that it was important to commit oneself to quality over quantity. Unfortunately we live in a high paced society that encourages the…
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Glory To God Or To Self?

Last Sunday approximately 103.4 million people watched the Super Bowl and were surprised by an underdog upset. Some people watched because they love football, some were fans of one of the two teams, and others just like the commercials or Justin Timberlake. Whatever the case, these football players had a huge platform; all eyes were…
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How Does The Racism Of The Past Affect Me Today?

So much of the division that goes on in our society is related to race issues. This is not just a problem in the United States; it is an issue around the globe. Unfortunately America’s history is darkened by the days of slavery, the Civil War, and segregation. Today opinions on racism tend to drift…
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What Are You Taking For Granted?

Anyone who knows me well knows that I am almost always cold (the downside of having no natural insulation I guess).  To help you picture this, right now I am sitting in my room with a blanket, a heating pad, and an infared space heater.  Needless to say, when I wake up and see that…
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(Wisdom Wednesday) You Mean… I’m Eventually Going To Die?

American radio and television writer Andrew Rooney said, “Death is a distant rumor to the young.”  There is certainly some wisdom in this saying.  When I was young(er) I never really thought much about death… but the reality is that of the few things that are absolutely certain in this life, death is one of…
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Are We A House Divided?

Recently the big story in the news is the government shutdown.  I don’t know all of the details, but at the center of it is the fact that congress cannot agree on a variety of things. Neither one is willing to budge on their positions, and they are not treating one another with respect.  As…
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